I had this random thought while making another blog post earlier. It’s all about the evil word Insecurity.
To me, a girl gets insecure the moment she starts to feel that she’s no longer special.
It’s all subjective though, it’s all about her feelings. To the guy, she might still be his beloved princess with all the love in the world, but she doesn’t feel it. There may be reasons why. Maybe the guy is just to busy. It doesn’t mean that he doesn’t love her anymore or that he’s with someone else. The guy might just be plain friendly with other girls. she just can’t handle it and compare herself to these other girls. She starts to notice little things that would suggest her guy doesn’t like to be with her anymore. Then they fight and the basis is all speculation. It’s a mess.
I flew Singapore Airlines to Singapore and I really enjoyed the flight with lots of movies I can choose from. I watched this movie “Chloe.” I recommend everyone to watch it. Girls can relate, and the guys don’t usually like the Drama genre but they will love the girl-on-girl scene with Amanda Seyfried and Julian Moore.
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The movie’s tagline is “If the one you love was lying to you, how far would you go to find out the truth?” Chloe is all about this doctor (Julian Moore) who hired an escort to seduce her husband, whom she suspects of cheating. Not to give you spoilers but it just all boils down to her getting insecure for well a lot of reasons. This movie is just an example of how insecurity can ruin a relationship… tsk tsk tsk…
There’s also a popular saying “No one can make you feel insecure without your permission.” – I say, easier said than done. Everybody goes through this phase. So what do you do now? Just remind yourself constantly that no one really cares! If you feel fat, or thin as a chopstick or fugly or ugly or if you feel like you’re so stupid or that you have embarrassed yourself in public, or that this girl has a prettier face, nicer skin etc… People don’t care, so you shouldn’t bother entertaining ridiculous and unnecessary judgment from your own self.
Insecurity is a b*tch and it’s up to you how you treat it. Do you let it consume you? If you do, they always make things worse for you. Insecurity is never helpful.
Women don’t understand why men can be such insensitive human beings and guys just don’t get why a girl get’s too emotional with all the drama. Well, just a word of advice to men who want to avoid drama, do all you can to make her feel special. That’s all that is. Buy flowers occasionally for no reason, just to remind her you care. If you do miss dates or anything like that, make sure you make up for it and don’t entertain too many ladies especially when she’s around. No matter how secure the girl is with herself, she will no longer feel special and the rest is history
Whoah, I haven’t written very personally lately. I just thought of putting my thoughts on writing and share it to you guys. At least my thinking brain can give some light on those who can relate. What do you think? Let me know yah?!? You can argue with me just let me know what you think of this evil word.
Well, that’s all for tonight… Ta-ta!